We have been in the throws of construction for about six months but most of our belongings have been in storage for nine months. Our large POD container was delivered yesterday. We couldn’t open it because in all the construction moving stuff from here to there I lost the combination. We didn’t own a bolt cutter and neither did any of our neighbors. We did buy a bolt cutter today to gain entry to our stuff, but I didn’t open the POD until several hours later. I was having a dilemma over the stuff that it contained.
The last several years I have been decluttering, cleaning and donating but I always had more stuff. I did all the decluttering and cleaning before we moved and put all the stuff in the POD. My dilemma is we’ve lived without all of this stuff for nine months. There have been items that we’ve needed but over all we’ve lived fine without. My question is, do we need most of it? For me the answer is no, but not everything in the POD is mine. I can’t make that decision for the rest of my family.
When I did open the POD I stood and stared at the wall of stuff. I just let the image of it sink in. I only took a few boxes out because they had shifted during transport and had my older son take them inside. As I stood their I took a mindful minute and reflected on what I had read in Marie Kondos’ book. I can only tidy my own belongings, but those around me will see how I find joy in my belongings and they will do the same. That’s what I am going to do. I will only keep the items that bring me joy. I think I’ll be referencing my copy of The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up quite a lot in the coming days and weeks.
I will deal with the box that was brought in when its that categories turn, per the KonMari Method. We will be unloading the POD on Thursday since tomorrow is Christmas. We’ll start in the morning to give us plenty of time. This process won’t be easy and I know frustration will occur but I also know peace of mind will also occur at the end.
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We recently moved in with my father and in that process we got rid of a lot of stuff. Then the first two weeks we were here, we got rid of even more stuff. Then more time went by and we got rid of even more stuff. We donated to local charities and sent other things to the auction house. There is still more stuff to go through. I have been consistently going through all of our belongings in an attempt to organize and get things in there new home. But in this process I’m still donating items and there will be more items in the future.
But what’s got me thinking is the two pods worth of stuff still to be unpacked once the addition is finished. The addition is another story. There is furniture for the boys rooms and other miscellaneous items for the house. My mind keeps going to the “do we need, or want, all those items in the pods?” And I keep thinking, “probably not”.
It seems kind of backwards to me that I want to reduce the amount of things I have but we’re adding about 900 square feet to the house which will end up with stuff. The space were adding is for bedrooms, not just to have more space for stuff. But it does feel a tad counter productive.
I look around and see my belongings and that of my families. Some of the stuff is useful, some meaningful, and other things that are just there. Some of the items will have a home in the addition and are hanging out in an odd spot, but I feel others may be moving on to new homes.
There will be a lot of work going on in the coming months to pear down the things and lots of construction of the new area. But when the addition is ready to move in to I will have to face the pods and all that they hold. I think that will be a true test of what items I want to keep in my life and which items I will bid a fond farewell too.
How do you feel about your space and your belongings in it?
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When I was in middle school I read a collection of stories about people who gave up all their worldly possessions to live a simple life. That simple life was in different forms. I remember thinking who in the world would do that? All of their stuff. Only crazy people do that.
Well call me crazy but I’ve been purging a lot of stuff lately. Car loads of stuff to our local charity. And I was reminded of those stories. My life had been taken over by stuff. And most of that stuff didn’t have any meaning for me. The thought of having meaningless stuff just hanging around, weighing me down, was a horrible feeling. That’s when I started going through everything.
I’ve gotten rid of a lot of things and I don’t even miss the stuff. Which I thought I would, but I’m loving the feeling of being free from stuff. A weight has truly been lifted. Believe me I still have a lot of things, but I’m going through them. I have a goal of once a week to make a drop off trip to the charity. The charity also does pickups so I’ll be using that as well.
When I’m deciding if an item will stay or go I ask myself a few questions.
Have I used this lately
Does it give me joy
Is it meaningful
It’s been hard for some items and to be honest, there are items that have made it through a few rounds because I can’t seem to let them go. And there were others that were really easy to say good-bye to. But oh what a feeling of knowing others will enjoy and benefit from the items. That makes me feel good.
Have any of you gone through this or are currently purging stuff out of your life? I would love to hear about it.
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